16 EASY WAYS ON HOW TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE MINDSET

Are you the kind of person who expects the worst so that you wont be disappointed when it happens? Expecting failure and betrayal, seeing downsides where others don't, even seeing positives as negatives; all these is bad mentality but you can overcome it little by little using the below tactics.

HOW TO CHANGE NEGATIVE MINDSET

I know it is hard to stop negative thoughts if you have been having them for quite sometime; but it’s the only way, especially if you want to avoid going down a path that is painful and unnecessary. By taking small and consistent steps you will gradually become a happier person.

IT DRAINS YOU INSIDE WITHOUT YOU REALIZING IT

Negative thoughts drain you of energy and keep you from being in the present moment. The more you give in to your negative thoughts, the stronger they become.  What we usually notice about negative thinking first is the Effect, not the Cause, of it. In fact, we may not even beware that we’re thinking negatively, we’re just aware of how we feel in response to it. Below are some of the consequences of negative mindset.

FIND OUT WHAT THESE PERSONALITY TYPES HAVE IN COMMON

A negative Mindset will eventually change you to become a person that you are not.  It changes your personality into something else. One person can have a mixture of several types, but then one type will be more prominent than others. Below are the different personalities that develop as a result negative mindset.

CAUSES OF NEGATIVE MINDSET

Funny enough negative mindset pattern starts way back in the early stages of someone’s life, as a young person you learn from the people around you and the environment you are at.   For example children will not tell right from wrong therefore they get their guidance from parents/guardians. 

MINDSET

When I was younger I would swear to you that a fixed mindset is the best, but with time I came to realize that it is more harmful to have a fixed mindset than a flexible/growth one.  If you are keen enough you will realize that there are two inner voices in you, and that is the negative and positive it depends on which of the two is louder and which one you listen to more.

DONT STRESS YOURSELF IN TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE

It is hard to accept but many of the people we keep around us are harming us.  In most cases this happens without us even realizing it.  Those who don’t have anything positive to add in our life are only taking up valuable space.   Some of these friends are distracting us from our goals, are bad influences and some of them even make us angry, stressed, lie to us or even abuse our friendship.