DONT STRESS YOURSELF IN TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE

It is hard to accept but many of the people we keep around us are harming us.  In most cases this happens without us even realizing it.  Those who don’t have anything positive to add in our life are only taking up valuable space.   Some of these friends are distracting us from our goals, are bad influences and some of them even make us angry, stressed, lie to us or even abuse our friendship.

Most of the people who come into your life actually leave you better off by leaving your life.  You can fill your life with wonderful people who do matter to you. Unfortunately, they’re rare creatures.

 

Ø  Always know that “opinions are just that – Opinions”

Opinions aren’t facts and people will always have opinions whether you like it or not. Just because you think something should be done some way doesn’t mean it’s the best way to do it.  It doesn’t mean that it is the only and sure way of doing things.   They are neither wrong nor right so do not allow other people to impose their opinions on you.

Ø  Follow your heart and do what you want. 

Whatever doesn’t make you happy isn’t worth doing.  You cannot do anything without being judged; no matter what you do or wear.  While trying to please other people whatever you are doing should at the very least please you simultaneously. If you find that pleasing other people is making you miserable, you clearly shouldn’t be trying to please them.

Life is too short to allow yourself to be miserable, especially when there are much better options.

Ø  Play your own rules because life has more to offer

If you believe that you are right strongly enough, you will be surprised how many people you can convince.  When your vision is so strong other people will start seeing the world in the same manner as you do. 

The greatest most successful, most powerful and influential individuals live in realities of their own creation.

Ø  Only try pleasing the people close to you and not everyone

If by any chance you should please anyone then it should be those closest to you because they matter to you and a part of you.  By pleasing them, you are also pleasing yourself; it’s a win-win situation.

Do not blame yourself all the time when something goes wrong because it may not be your fault.  It may be the person you're trying to make peace with is just flat out difficult.