THE RIGHT CONDUCT

Morality is all about behaviors; it is conformity to the rules of right conduct. It all comes back to how you conduct yourself around people who know you and those who don’t know you.  Are you a two sided person or do you maintain the same behavior no matter where you are?  We all make mistakes; but do you accept to be corrected when you are wrong or even do you listen to advice when someone is trying to help you?

Learn to set Limits

There is a limit for everything, right!! Because even taking a lot of sugar is harmful to your body. Take control of your own life because besides God you are the only one with yourself 24/7.  As young people it’s good to enjoy and have fun but also set a limit to what extent you can go to in the name of having fun.  

How to Develop Good Morals

Accept to be corrected and listen to advice.  Even if you don’t agree with what you are being told don’t develop a habit of arguing all the time, listen and use what is of value to you.  

Take criticism in a positive way.  At times people criticize because they are jealous but there are those who do it to help you.  Be keen enough and don’t let those who do it for ill motives to pull you down.  Listen to critics and examine yourself deeply and see if whatever you were told is the truth or not and if it is the truth then try as much as you can to change.  

If you don’t know how to behave/do something always ask for guidance from the people you believe will be able to guide you in the right way.  

Try as much as possible to govern your temper, tongue and conduct.  Be in control of your own self in the sense that if at least you know what is right or wrong then you will be able to govern these three things.   

Do not be cheated everyone is capable of talking or conducting themselves however they want but the well behaved only create a difference because they have self control.  Don’t allow your temper or tongue to drive you do or say something that will make you regret later.  

Do not be a person who blames others all the time because of your mistakes.  You also have a mind to guide you not to engage in bad behaviors therefore when it happens you are also to blame as well not unless you were forced. 

Learn not to be someone who complains all the time.  If you know you have the ability to change something bad then take the initiative and change it but if you don’t have the power to then accept or avoid it.

Change your attitude and develop a flexible mindset in order to accommodate different views.  It is unlikely that you will be right all the time therefore accept to be corrected when wrong.

Do not develop a judgmental habit.  Get to understand that people were brought up differently and no one is perfect.