FIND OUT WHAT THESE PERSONALITY TYPES HAVE IN COMMON

A negative Mindset will eventually change you to become a person that you are not.  It changes your personality into something else. One person can have a mixture of several types, but then one type will be more prominent than others. Below are the different personalities that develop as a result negative mindset.

CAUSES OF NEGATIVE MINDSET

Funny enough negative mindset pattern starts way back in the early stages of someone’s life, as a young person you learn from the people around you and the environment you are at.   For example children will not tell right from wrong therefore they get their guidance from parents/guardians. 

MINDSET

When I was younger I would swear to you that a fixed mindset is the best, but with time I came to realize that it is more harmful to have a fixed mindset than a flexible/growth one.  If you are keen enough you will realize that there are two inner voices in you, and that is the negative and positive it depends on which of the two is louder and which one you listen to more.

DONT STRESS YOURSELF IN TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE

It is hard to accept but many of the people we keep around us are harming us.  In most cases this happens without us even realizing it.  Those who don’t have anything positive to add in our life are only taking up valuable space.   Some of these friends are distracting us from our goals, are bad influences and some of them even make us angry, stressed, lie to us or even abuse our friendship.

WHY YOU SHOULD NOT TRY TO PLEASE EVERYONE

It is dangerous to be concerned with what others think of you; for it is an emotional trap when you start worrying about what other people think.  Because the only time everybody's going to speak well of you is at your funeral!

YOU CANNOT PLEASE EVERYONE

Live at peace with everyone; do not try to please everybody as there are some people you can’t please no matter what you try or how nice you are to them.  Just be yourself and by doing that you will attract those who like the character in you. 

HOW TO KNOW YOUR LIFE IS BALANCED

Living in balance is easy and very rewarding because your life becomes the one of joy, happiness and serenity.  Here below are some of the signs that will let you know whether your life is balanced.