FORGIVENESS - AVOID GETTING HURT

You may not have control over what others do but you can take control over how you want to feel. You can choose to feel peaceful regardless of what you observe going on. You can decide to release and heal or hold on to it and inflict more pain to yourself.

Avoid Getting Hurt

Ø  Disregard any inclination to dominate

Learn to soften your hard edges and be more tolerant of contrary opinions. Do not interfere so much but instead learn to listen and avoid the habit of being the only one who tells others what to do or even directs all the time. By doing this you will free yourself from being disappointed or frustrated with people who don’t behave as per your expectations.

Ø  Stop looking for occasions to be offended

There are people who will always look for opportunities to be offended; and if that is what you are looking for, you will definitely get offended. Choose to feel peaceful and avoid things or issues that may offend you.

Ø  Avoid being judgmental

Try to avoid judgmental opinions; learn to listen to the other side of the story rather than being too quick to condemn or criticize. I assure you this will leave you with so much peace and you will be free from negative energy.

Ø  No one is perfect

No human being is perfect; we all have weaknesses and strengths and whatever may be your strength could be a weakness to someone else or vice versa. This is a true indication that we are bound to make mistakes at one point or another therefore; once you get to understand that you will learn to tolerate others.

Ø  Do the right thing

Doing the right thing is very important, do the right thing even if you are the only one doing it. Do it for yourself and not others; make a commitment to protect yourself and feel better. Doing the right thing will keep you off a lot of guilt and this will leave you with inner peace. Look for other ways to meet your goals and not through revenge and rage.

Ø  Don’t expect too much from others

Do the right thing but do not expect so much from others because you are bound to get disappointed. People will not meet your expectations all the time therefore learn to be flexible and be happy.

Yes you can do it because you have control over what you want to feel. Life is so simple, try not to complicate it and you will be happy.

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